Yes, it’s bad. But there are important life lessons, here, right? By Kelly Hockenberry, Columnist, The Times I have a secret. And, it’s bad.  Really, really bad. I watch “The Bachelor.” I KNOW!  I KNOW!  Stop judging!  It is just SO DARN ENTERTAINING.  But, there are also lessons to be learned, ladies….so, pull up a chair for my assessment of this train-wreck of a show: